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Friday, September 19, 2008

Azhan's first time fasting

As mentioned in my previous post, tahun ni tahun kedua menunaikan ibadah puasa di bulan Ramadhan bersama Fadz dan anak2. Azhan pon nampaknye sudah belajar berpuasa. But for the time being, we asked him to fast only on the weekend cause I think it'd be much easier for him to perform it while he's away from school and his non-Muslim class mates. Setakat ni, Azhan berjaya berpuasa penuh selama 4 hari. I know it may sound very little compared to young lads of his age back home in Malaysia. But do bear in mind that we're living in foreign soil where the Ramadhan fasting environment and spirit don't seem to exist at all.

I found it difficult to make Azhan understands the meaning and importance of fasting during the holy month. I remembered trying to explain to him about the rationale of performing this task as a Muslim on the previous Saturday. It was the first day that he started to experience the feeling of fasting for the entire day. His daddy promised him that if Azhan managed to fast from dawn till dusk, he'd reward Azhan £2 for each day. Azhan took up this challenge upon learning the reward should he succeed. But by mid-day after spending the entire morning walking from one shop to another doing our grocery shopping, Azhan started to plead if he could have a sip of drink. He kept complaining of how thirsty and starving he was.

I tried to comfort him by telling him the importance of performing of this rather difficult task. I told him that the Muslims been summoned to fast so that we'd realise how fortunate we are compared to those living in poverty whom couldn't even afford to buy food. My explanation might have sounded too grown-up for a seven-year old boy to comprehend that he kept asking when could he have a glass of water. Neither I nor Fadz gave-in to his pleading instead we pursuaded Azhan to lie down and have plenty of rest. We kept telling him it was just a few hours more to go for Iftar. Fadz had even diverted Azhan's focus from thirst and starvation to the reward that awaited him. I'm sure someday when Azhan is older, he'd have a better understanding of the concept of fasting.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hello.....classmate!!!!
I got to know about your blog by chance!!!!!Tak sangka....
Lots of things to ask and to tell...later eh..
kirim salam dekat fazlan

p/s: seeing your kids makes me realise how fast time flies....

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Afilia Ramdzan Ali
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Intan said...

wardina, intan lalat ni! ala besarnya anak kau sekarang...kau ni ngan anak kau mcm adik ngan kakak lak..haha..okla aku cuma nak ucapkan selamat hari raya & maaf zahir batin ya!

Wardina said...

afilia,
tx for dropping by. lame btul x dgr cite. mane m'hilang?

intan,
anak aku dh besar pjg dh kn? ko jgn x tau, dh nk same tinggi dgn aku dh. mcm adik dgn kakak ke kitorg? itula untungnye dpt anak time mude remaje. hehe